EdD vs PhD

Every day is a mental battle to choose between a EdD or a PhD.

I figured I should only go onto a EdD because I am not interested in teaching in the classical sense of classroom instruction, but today I had an epiphany...

I'm not going to limit myself to an EdD. A PhD will give me more opportunity to influence college students. Not just socially but academically as well. A more Hollistic Approach.
2/23/14

Transition

Just kind of a personal update about me!

January moved back from Georgia to Florida. Attending Nova Southeastern University in person now in Ft. Lauderdale. I am 9 classes away from my Master's in College Student Affairs. I am also pledging Alpha Kappa Psi Fraternity, Inc. It's a coed business fraternity. I am do well, but we're only 3 weeks or so into the process!

I am single, have been since October when I broke up with Damien, through text message. Awful I know, but he drove me to it.

I am still not done with my degree at UCF, however, I will be done this summer. No questions asked. 2 more classes left, and I am hoping to enroll, after I pay of the debt with my summer aid. A lot of stress was caused by being enrolled at both schools, but I am a conqueror no matter what.

Lastly, I am sleeping on Yvelaine's couch. But by May 1st I should be moved into my very own 1 bedroom apt in Pampano Beach. I started a job in the library at my school, as a Graduate Lab Assistant and it's $10.50 an hour. I pretty much am getting paid to do my homework. #WIN And in addition to that, I was offered a full time position at Everglades University in Boca Raton that I start Friday 2/14...yes Valentine's Day. But eh, I'm in love with the money!! This position came right on time, I am running out of gas money, honey! I will be the Administrative Assistant to Academics/Executive Assistant to the Vice President of Academic Affairs. I am so thrilled! I'm about to be bringing in roughly $3500 a month!

The goal now is to save save save, learn as much as I can! Then next year (2015) be done with both master's and ready for any job around the country. After that I'll start a doctoral program in 2017 to be done before I turn 30 years old. Bachelor's at 21, 2 Master's at 25 and a Doctorate at 30. Yea, I'm doing the most but I love it!!!

I'm single

I have officially completed my 6 month challenge to be single and celibate. I had one slip up with someone who no longer matters to me.

I can't believe as the end was nearing, I was asked out on 3 dates. I thought the challenge had worked. unfortunately I was so very wrong.

I started to like 2 people. A sophomore and a Kappa. However they both only want me for my vagina. Simply put, only interested in having sex with me. For what, I'm still lost. I had never flirted with them or said I was interested in having sex with them.

I want a boyfriend. I haven't had a real boyfriend since high school. Sophomore year there was a short relationship with titles, junior year a three month long distance relationship and senior year an intense month of a drama infused relationship.

I don't want to be "that girl" or a "hoe" ... I'm ready to settle down...and just be in a committed relationship. I'm tired of starting over and getting to know someone. I think I'm a catch...smart, cute, funny, adventurous, down for whatever, can cook and educated. However nobody else seems to see me that way. Which sucks. Cuz I see plenty of other people that way.

Forever alone.

The End

You know, when you tell someone you love them...you can't really take that back. But right now I hate you.

I literally fell in love with you....and fell flat on my damn face.

Tonight it stops here. I'm not going to check on you, hit you up, wonder if you're in town...or let you control my heart or emotions any further.

Good bye, Dejey Andou!

Deactivated Twitter

I said I never wanted to be on twitter because it was the devil. within three days or so I saw more drama than my almost three  years on it combined. I somehow hurt my roomie/best friend feelings because I talked about her negatively. Now I've just deactivated it. I can't take this bull anymore. Tired of people getting out of hand because they can hide behind an Android phone or iPhone. Tired of drama finding me. Ugh, just over it all. Bye bye twitter.

Twitter

Drama. Period.

Stolen License Plate

Someone swapped my license plate with another car, and my plate and Iota Sweetheart vover is missing. Had to file a police report. Dumbest thing to ever happen to me. My plate identifies my car, why would a person steal that?

And my plate cover was a gift. I want it returned to me.

:'(